Ok i'm not perfect (obviously) but just some advice. Girls HATE the following:
Number 1- They HATE it when you pay too much attention to them
Number 2- Overdoing it with your feelings towards her
Number 3- Giving them the upper hand in the relationship (which in this particular case hasnt happened to me but Zac said so... : P)
Number 4- Letting them treat you like a doormat by putting their needs in front of yours
DO ANY OF THE ABOVE AND YOU ARE POTENTIALLY GONNA BE FUCKED UP
Ok if you wanna say it that way LOL... Sigh I think i've really grown up to not be pulled down. I dont think I have the same ammount of confidence I had but i'm picking myself up... I mean, a man has gotta be bullet proof right?
Have fun guys!
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Friday, March 12, 2010
Beta House with Love
Ok this is the second house that I have designed and its completely dedicated to Izyan!
Lets jump straight into it. I present you, Beta House:
Beta house is situated on a cliff by the ocean, giving Izyan an amazing view to wake up to! It consist of 2 non independant buildings that is joined by a roofed bridge. As you can see the Beta, like Alpha, has huge windows, allowing A LOT of sunlight to enter giving the interior a bright fresh look each day! Ok, so the whole house is has this great amazing view but what is the point if you don't have the time to admire it each day? For this reason, the dinning table, living room and games area are ALL situated OUTSIDE of the house at the back! From the kitchen, the scene can also be seen through a large 2x6 oak window. One other thing is, EVERYTHING is in visual range! From the kitchen you can spot the dinning room or the BBQ pit or the Swimming pool. The Living room is right beside the pool and BBQ pit and is only across the car porch from the dinning room. The only place that is far from all this excitement is the library and bar where you need peace and tranquility to study.
Well I hope you are very impressed Izyan. Coming up next in the design line is one dedicated to Zafir. Some say, he needs a lot of toilets bowls for his house. Some say that his house should be a toilet bowl. All i know is that the house would be a great bachelor pad for that single men waiting to bring home and entice his special dates. Tune back in in a couple of days or so to find out how Charlie, Zafir's house, would look like. Any ideas or comments should kindly be left in the comment box on the right
Lets jump straight into it. I present you, Beta House:
Beta house is situated on a cliff by the ocean, giving Izyan an amazing view to wake up to! It consist of 2 non independant buildings that is joined by a roofed bridge. As you can see the Beta, like Alpha, has huge windows, allowing A LOT of sunlight to enter giving the interior a bright fresh look each day! Ok, so the whole house is has this great amazing view but what is the point if you don't have the time to admire it each day? For this reason, the dinning table, living room and games area are ALL situated OUTSIDE of the house at the back! From the kitchen, the scene can also be seen through a large 2x6 oak window. One other thing is, EVERYTHING is in visual range! From the kitchen you can spot the dinning room or the BBQ pit or the Swimming pool. The Living room is right beside the pool and BBQ pit and is only across the car porch from the dinning room. The only place that is far from all this excitement is the library and bar where you need peace and tranquility to study.
Well I hope you are very impressed Izyan. Coming up next in the design line is one dedicated to Zafir. Some say, he needs a lot of toilets bowls for his house. Some say that his house should be a toilet bowl. All i know is that the house would be a great bachelor pad for that single men waiting to bring home and entice his special dates. Tune back in in a couple of days or so to find out how Charlie, Zafir's house, would look like. Any ideas or comments should kindly be left in the comment box on the right
Thursday, March 11, 2010
The Architect
Ok now for the past few days, I have decided to design houses using the Sims 3. I dont know why the urge suddenly came but i guess it was similar to my urge to draw or basically my urge to express my artistic senses. Wont bore you guys no more with dull speeches and stuff but here it goes.
House Alpha:
House Alpha is single bedroom bunglow consisting of 2 seperate buildings, main lobby and pent house. The main lobby and pent house are connect via a floor bridge that is used for parties, BBQs or for just plain relaxing or sunbathing. The main lobby is designed under the influence of an open air concept where walls do not distinguish the different sections of the building. The living room is dug into the ground and layered with marble flooring to give it the slight colonial look but has the modern aroma to it as shown by the intense lighting by the large windows. To allow more light to enter the house, the living room is completely open air. There is no roof there. Airconditioning is on throughout but will not escape (cold air is dense) in between the buildings, is the swimming pool which is also directly under the floor bride, allowing swimmers to swim without fear of the sun's deadly UV rays. The pent house is the theater of the whole building. Notice that the main lobby has no television whatsoever? Thats cause its located in the pent house. With a large 65inch LED TV and 6.1 surround sound, it will deliver mind blowing realism in all your movies and game. The whole bottom room is designed acoustically be it lighthing or room shape along with materials required for a pleasant experiance. Above it all is the master bed room with built in walk in closet. The room is partitioned into two to split the study corner and bed area. The house has a total of 3 toilets, one in the main lobby and the other 2 in the pent house.
Well thats all for now folks... I'll be back soon with the second house codenamed Beta. Its dedicated to this girl Izyan. She'd be so proud!
Sunday, March 7, 2010
He's Right. We're Right.
Something Zafir and I discussed some time ago. Here is what I said:
"I can tell you that you don't have to be in a relationship to be in or give love. A relationship is more of like a commitment. If you're not ready to commit, don't. Cause you're gonna screw it all up. Just like I did before. You gotta stop and think it through. Cause we, or I, didn't. Good to learn form mistakes. I guess every part of this makes you a tad wiser each time. Yeaaaah..... :)"
"So much for strategic planning... Sometimes I wish I never had great ambitions or planned my life for the future... Cause it gives me no room for error. Its too restrictive. It could and WOULD affect others too. I mean just because of my 'long term plans' so called, others get restricted by it. I don't want you to get restricted by it. Like what the last post said, no commitments. Just enjoy each other together. Fullstop.
Yes. We're still young. And its foolish to think of something years away. Now THAT's what you call rushing."
And here is Zafir from http://drasticmeasuresonhold.blogspot.com/ This is what he has to say:
"Zafir here,
And I would like to share my views on commitment, at our age (like teenagers). Like, commitments to each other kind of commitment.
According to Dictionary.com, a reliable dictionary website, the definition of commitment is a pledge, or a promise, an obligation. So it sounds like when you commit yourself to someone, you have to be there for that person no matter what. Seems like your freedom is gone, and you're under a leash. Or trapped in a cage.
I hear lots of couples our age, complaining and breaking up because they can't commit themselves to each other. Well OBVIOUSLY at our age you can't commit yourself to anyone yet. Then why talk about all these commitment nonsense. Some of us can't even commit ourselves to studies, *ahem*, let alone their boy/girlfriends.
I'm not against dating and getting attached at our age, (I myself had a few, and still interested in being in one). But isn't knowing that both of you like each other enough? Like, (from guys point of view) meet up with her, spend time with her, and look forward to your next meeting with her. Not like, be with her 24/7. Wouldn't that be boring? Give her space too, for her own life, for her friends.
Commitment is like you're owning each other's life, you can control them, you expect them to be there for you no matter what. I don't think we can do that at our age right now."
I've got other thoughts about being there 24/7 kind of thing. I mean I believe that you SHOULD have the ability to be there 24/7. It shows that you are serious and not just PLAYING AROUND (like many jerks and douchebags such as this one guy named Azzz) But if your girl/ guy doesn't like it or need some space, really back off. They just cannot handle it. Its like you might be ready to live with your love but they might not. Sometimes, it takes more time for them to settle down. Some of us were just born to adapt to situations.
Think it through. However, certain things are not meant to be thought out. I believe the moment you have to decide or choose, it shows that you have doubts. Its like "do I want to be with *insert name here*?" This is a dangerous question. You cannot treat this kind of question like a mathe question. The answer must surface by itself.
What do you guys think? Leave a comment y'all!
*edit : Ok not really 24/7 but more like prepared to spend as much time with her as possible. I have that luxury of time so I can do it without impacting my daily life. Thats me. Adaptive Akid.
"I can tell you that you don't have to be in a relationship to be in or give love. A relationship is more of like a commitment. If you're not ready to commit, don't. Cause you're gonna screw it all up. Just like I did before. You gotta stop and think it through. Cause we, or I, didn't. Good to learn form mistakes. I guess every part of this makes you a tad wiser each time. Yeaaaah..... :)"
"So much for strategic planning... Sometimes I wish I never had great ambitions or planned my life for the future... Cause it gives me no room for error. Its too restrictive. It could and WOULD affect others too. I mean just because of my 'long term plans' so called, others get restricted by it. I don't want you to get restricted by it. Like what the last post said, no commitments. Just enjoy each other together. Fullstop.
Yes. We're still young. And its foolish to think of something years away. Now THAT's what you call rushing."
And here is Zafir from http://drasticmeasuresonhold.blogspot.com/ This is what he has to say:
"Zafir here,
And I would like to share my views on commitment, at our age (like teenagers). Like, commitments to each other kind of commitment.
According to Dictionary.com, a reliable dictionary website, the definition of commitment is a pledge, or a promise, an obligation. So it sounds like when you commit yourself to someone, you have to be there for that person no matter what. Seems like your freedom is gone, and you're under a leash. Or trapped in a cage.
I hear lots of couples our age, complaining and breaking up because they can't commit themselves to each other. Well OBVIOUSLY at our age you can't commit yourself to anyone yet. Then why talk about all these commitment nonsense. Some of us can't even commit ourselves to studies, *ahem*, let alone their boy/girlfriends.
I'm not against dating and getting attached at our age, (I myself had a few, and still interested in being in one). But isn't knowing that both of you like each other enough? Like, (from guys point of view) meet up with her, spend time with her, and look forward to your next meeting with her. Not like, be with her 24/7. Wouldn't that be boring? Give her space too, for her own life, for her friends.
Commitment is like you're owning each other's life, you can control them, you expect them to be there for you no matter what. I don't think we can do that at our age right now."
I've got other thoughts about being there 24/7 kind of thing. I mean I believe that you SHOULD have the ability to be there 24/7. It shows that you are serious and not just PLAYING AROUND (like many jerks and douchebags such as this one guy named Azzz) But if your girl/ guy doesn't like it or need some space, really back off. They just cannot handle it. Its like you might be ready to live with your love but they might not. Sometimes, it takes more time for them to settle down. Some of us were just born to adapt to situations.
Think it through. However, certain things are not meant to be thought out. I believe the moment you have to decide or choose, it shows that you have doubts. Its like "do I want to be with *insert name here*?" This is a dangerous question. You cannot treat this kind of question like a mathe question. The answer must surface by itself.
What do you guys think? Leave a comment y'all!
*edit : Ok not really 24/7 but more like prepared to spend as much time with her as possible. I have that luxury of time so I can do it without impacting my daily life. Thats me. Adaptive Akid.
Saturday, March 6, 2010
BE. AFRAID
Not me... No... Yes. I'm talking to you you ponitianks, pochong or what ever shit... Really, get the fuck away from me or i'll just fuck you up. How'd ya like to feel some burning sensation from hell? Don't think so.
Ok the reason why I'm saying this is that, yesterday night (friday night to saturday morning) Zac, Keith, Crazyman and I went out for a night cycling. And it was a real bad one. As we went out, I first happened to 'see' something (but hey I didn't really give a damn about it so I was like "whatever") so we left for East Coast Park. While we were cycling, some of our torch lights for some reason began to fail. Mine started giving way for no reason ALTHOUGH I HAD NEW BATTS IN THEM. To make matters worse, some of the paths had no lights at all. Also, some of them WENT OUT as we approached them! Creepy shit.
Soon Zac had bad feelings and started to feel unwell. Shi Yang and Keith were also apparently disturbed by something... The whole time I couldn't feel anything. That's when I stared into the woods and said "WHOEVER IT IS, FUCK OFF".
Soon later, Keith had an accident on his bike. It was bad enough to destroy the tire so we had to carry the bike back as the breaks were in an engage position. Keith's shoes too fell apart. And we took hours to WALK back. From then on they said it was still following us... All the way back to my place.
Fortunately my mom said that thing didn't come in. So thats good. Through all the stuff that happened, its just funny to me that, I don't really feel all that afraid or scared. I don't know why. I mean seriously like zilch of any emotions except to console my friends who felt disturbed...
Ok the reason why I'm saying this is that, yesterday night (friday night to saturday morning) Zac, Keith, Crazyman and I went out for a night cycling. And it was a real bad one. As we went out, I first happened to 'see' something (but hey I didn't really give a damn about it so I was like "whatever") so we left for East Coast Park. While we were cycling, some of our torch lights for some reason began to fail. Mine started giving way for no reason ALTHOUGH I HAD NEW BATTS IN THEM. To make matters worse, some of the paths had no lights at all. Also, some of them WENT OUT as we approached them! Creepy shit.
Soon Zac had bad feelings and started to feel unwell. Shi Yang and Keith were also apparently disturbed by something... The whole time I couldn't feel anything. That's when I stared into the woods and said "WHOEVER IT IS, FUCK OFF".
Soon later, Keith had an accident on his bike. It was bad enough to destroy the tire so we had to carry the bike back as the breaks were in an engage position. Keith's shoes too fell apart. And we took hours to WALK back. From then on they said it was still following us... All the way back to my place.
Fortunately my mom said that thing didn't come in. So thats good. Through all the stuff that happened, its just funny to me that, I don't really feel all that afraid or scared. I don't know why. I mean seriously like zilch of any emotions except to console my friends who felt disturbed...
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Really? You don't even try to run to check your mobile? If you did, don't you bother to reply? If you made a list of the things you cared about in your life, I actually wonder if I'm at the top of it... Oh no no no no... Am I even IN IT?
I Start Questioning Myself....
Ok so here I am looking out for my phone like a million times every day. You know for what reason. You know what, is it me that I care too much? Because I think I do... I think too much... I actually feel an invisible force attempting to repel me away. Oh no not repelling me away, more of like shoving me aside. Am I a toy? I am NOT a DISPOSABLE AKID. Put it this way, am I worth the trouble? I am guessing not...
I wonder what you're thinking about now really.
I Start Questioning Myself....
Ok so here I am looking out for my phone like a million times every day. You know for what reason. You know what, is it me that I care too much? Because I think I do... I think too much... I actually feel an invisible force attempting to repel me away. Oh no not repelling me away, more of like shoving me aside. Am I a toy? I am NOT a DISPOSABLE AKID. Put it this way, am I worth the trouble? I am guessing not...
I wonder what you're thinking about now really.
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